planetluvver wrote:I I am having trouble in feeling motivated to practice. I am rather depressed in general lately, so it is not limited to my guitar practice.
I know exactly how you feel - I've hardly picked up a guitar for months. Since Marilyn (my partner for 14 years) died in March, music, television and a lot of other things seem so trivial I just can't be bothered. I'll pick up a guitar occasionally, play a few desultory chords, maybe a 12-bar blues, then put it down again - doesn't seem to be any point. I keep telling myself, those callouses are disappearing - you really need to pick up the guitar and play for at least an hour a day. Then I think, what's the point...nobody's listening.
I've tried to get back into the habit of playing again....somehow I lack the will-power and motivation to force myself to get back into a daily routine. Strings on both my guitars will be snapping soon - been so long since I changed them, they're starting going black. I haven't even been writing songs - you'd think that being in a sad and lonely mood would give you a great insight to the blues, right? Wrong - just hasn't worked that way, I haven't put pen to paper (or rather, cursor to screen - I do most of my writing straight to computer.) for weeks and weeks, and I've got no idea where the next song will come from. Even the Sunday Songwriters Group isn't helping - I still check in every couple of days or so, see what the latest assignment is, but I'm drawing blanks.
I know what I need to do - start playing music again. Put the radio on, listen to music on you tube, pick up a guitar and sing along. There was a time not so long ago, I'd put the radio on - my fave oldies channel, playing 50's 60's and 70's music - and play along with whatever came on. I could lose myself in the music for hours.....
Alan Green wrote:Turn on the radio - one of the pop stations. Make sure your guitar is in tune and try to strum along.
I just said that, but it's good advice....I love the old 60's pop music, and most of it is quite simple - except virtually every pop hit of the 60's had a key change somewhere, where you'd be playing in A (A D and E, or A F#m D and E) then all of a sudden you'd be playing in B - B E and F#, or B, Abm E and F#. I'm going to make an effort to do just that tomorrow morning....it's been way too long.
Greybeard wrote:Write a blues song!
Looks like good advice, but if you're really feeling low, the last thing you want to do is put your feelings down on paper or a computer screen. They say you have to feel the blues to write the blues - but trust me on this one, when you're feeling down, the last thing you want to do is write about it. Although I suppose you could write a song about how you can't write a blues song because you're feeling too depressed to put pen to paper or pick up a guitar.......
EzraplaysEzra wrote:I hardly ever practice but I spend a lot of time thinking of playing.
I NEVER practised - I played songs. I really wouldn't know a scale if it hit me in the face - but that's not stopped me developing into a decent rhythm guitarist. Yeah, I play a little lead as well, a little bass guitar, but I never think about what I'm doing too deeply... I just FEEL my way into the music.
The problem is, the feeling's not there any more - I'm hoping it's just temporarily absent. Like I mentioned earlier, since Marilyn died I've been floundering.... it seems like nothing can hold my attention for long enough to get excited about.
Hopefully, in time, I'll get that feeling back.....and hopefully, Planetluvver, you will too. I'm going to make a start tomorrow morning by putting on the radio, picking up the guitar, and FORCING myself to play for an hour or so - hopefully, afer the initial grind, I'll start to enjoy it. Music's been a constant part of my life since I was a little kid, it's always been the one thing I could rely on to lift me up when I was feeling a little low. I don't think....no, I KNOW....I've never felt lower than the last few months. I also KNOW I have to get out of the rut I've been in.....
Like I just said, I'm going to make a start by turning on the radio tomorrow AM and playing along. Got to do something positive....how's about you do the same? Let's get back into the music - and life - together, see if we can help each other along the way. Your post has certainly inspired me.....I hope maybe I can help you through your slump. Let's get up in the morning, cup of tea/coffee, and 1 - 2 - 3 - LET'S ROCK!
(Still smiling, somehow....)
"Sometimes the beauty of music can help us all find strength to deal with all the curves life can throw us." (D. Hodge.)