"Onde Estas" by Nelly Furtado is the song. It may or may not be an easy one - I figure it doesn't hurt to request it.
I'm nowhere near able to figure this out on my own, so I'm wondering if anyone here has heard this song and can sort out the basics?
If I didn't define myself for myself, I would be crunched into other people's fantasies for me and eaten alive.
- Audre Lorde