How do you prefer to listen to music?

I like to listen alone, with headphones, reasonably loud. I imaging I am fronting a band populated by friends and workmates playing for other friends, relatives and workmates. Band members come and go as moods change. I even have a small brass section and backing vocals as required. I play the righthand channel guitar (so I dont necessarily get all the best guitar parts) and occassionally I will "guest" on bass or even drums. Well everyone needs a fantasy! Anyone else got a confession to make?